The Power of Marriage and Women's Value

Picture a world where marriage serves not just as a bond but as a powerful testament to a woman’s value. On my recent journey to Uganda with Team Empower and Shine, I witnessed firsthand the incredible strength and resilience of nearly 230 women(and a few good men)graduates from Street Business School. This annual march through the village is not just a celebration; it’s a bold declaration of empowerment and potential.

Street Business School is revolutionizing the landscape for women living in poverty by providing a transformative livelihood training program. This initiative equips women with the skills to launch and nurture their own microbusinesses, even if they lack formal education. The foundation of this program is confidence-building—because when women are empowered, they can elevate not only their lives but also their communities.

As I engaged with these courageous women, I reflected on the intricate relationship between dowry and women’s empowerment. Initially, I viewed dowry through a negative lens, but I quickly learned about the respect and honor embedded within this practice in Ugandan culture.

  The Cultural Significance of the dowry in Uganda  

Let’s explore the profound significance of women’s worth in this vibrant cultural context. In Uganda, marriage is a grand celebration of a woman’s value, with honorable men showcasing their commitment through the bride price. This is not merely a transaction; it’s a powerful symbol of respect that acknowledges a woman’s pivotal role in her family and society.

The bride price—a number of cattle that can range from 5 to over 150, depending on clan size—holds deep cultural meaning. This practice honors women and reinforces their importance within the community. While the standard bride price hovers around 50 cows, many men aspire to exceed this, demonstrating their capability and honor. They often include additional gifts like spices, home-brewed beer, and goats, reflecting their commitment to being responsible providers.

  The Challenges and Realities of Meeting the Bride Price  

What about those men who struggle to meet the bride price? They turn to their fathers, friends, and relatives, exemplifying the communal spirit that defines Ugandan society. However, the costs of dowries often don’t align with the average wages, requiring men to labor for years to fulfill this obligation. This reality underscores the need for a deep understanding and respect for cultural traditions.

Eloping without paying the bride price is not just frowned upon; it renders the union unrecognized by the community. Children born from such unions are associated with the woman’s clan until the bride price is paid, often facing stigma. Such practices serve to uphold the rights and dignity of women and children.

Once the bride price is settled, a woman secures the right to inherit her husband’s property and cattle. Her husband’s clan is then responsible for her welfare, ensuring that she and her children are cared for. This system not only strengthens family bonds but also grants women rights and security within their marriages.

Experiencing a Ugandan marriage is a beautiful immersion in traditions that honor the inherent worth of women. It is crucial that we advocate for women’s empowerment, ensuring their voices resonate and their rights are upheld in every marriage and beyond.

During my conversations with men about the dowry system, their seriousness was palpable. They took pride in paying the bride price, having dedicated years of hard work to provide for their brides, and their love for these women shone through.

  Conclusion: Celebrating Women’s Worth and Empowerment  

Now is the time to celebrate these traditions and champion women’s empowerment. We must recognize the invaluable roles women play in their families and communities. Together, let’s create a world where every woman is celebrated for her worth and potential. Join us in this vital movement to uplift women’s voices and ensure they are honored, empowered, and given every opportunity to thrive. Together, we can forge a brighter future for women everywhere.

-Joelle Lever